Codependent Relationship

13th Step in Recovery

Posted by on Sep 2, 2013 in Abusive Relationships, Addiction, Codependent Relationship, Emotional Abuse, Recovery, Relationships, Sexual Abuse, Sobriety |

13th Step in Recovery Most people are familiar with the term “12 Steps” even if they are not in recovery and even if they don’t know exactly what they are. Those who are or have been in recovery and part of a 12 Step fellowship are probably familiar with the 13th Step in Recovery. The 13th Step in Recovery Defined The 13th Step in Recovery is not actually part of the formal 12 Steps of AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), NA (Narcotics Anonymous), or CA (Cocaine Anonymous) but is a slang term...

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5 Signs You May be Codependent

Posted by on Jul 19, 2013 in Abusive Relationships, Addiction, Alcohol, Codependent Relationship, Relationships |

5 Signs You May be Codependent It can be really difficult for people to accept that they are codependent. Accepting codependency is a lot like someone accepting that they are an addict except the addiction is with a person. People can become addicted to a number of things such as gambling, sex and food and also people or relationships and that addiction is called codependency. Codependency can happen in any type of relationship where there is one spouse totally enmeshed with the other. Since...

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How to remove yourself from the victim role

Posted by on Jun 17, 2013 in Abusive Relationships, Codependent Relationship, Emotional Abuse, Helplessness, Recovery |

Addicts and alcoholics love to play the victim. We blame our addiction on outside people and circumstances. This allows us to shift responsibility for using drugs and drinking, and allows us to justify continuing to destroy our lives. We think, “If this had happened to you, you would use drugs and drink too.” This is not to say that addicts and alcoholics haven’t been through any trauma. Most addicts and alcoholics have. But instead of working through that trauma, we use it as an excuse...

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5 Signs That You are in an Abusive Relationship

Posted by on Jun 3, 2013 in Abusive Relationships, Codependent Relationship, Physical Abuse, Verbal Abuse, Women |

You would think that if you were in an abusive relationship you would definitely know it, but abuse can come in many different forms and a person can easily become jaded to the fact that the relationship is abusive after they have been around it for a long time. So how do you know that you are in an abusive relationship? Is it the physical and domestic violence? Not always. Here are 5 sings that you are in an abusive relationship. 5 signs that you are in an abusive relationship: It is...

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Signs of a Codependent Relationship

Posted by on Jan 14, 2013 in Codependent Relationship |

Signs of a codependent relationship Codependency used to be isolated merely to those who were linked to a person who was an alcoholic or drug addict. Now codependence has a much broader definition. Anyone, not just alcoholics and addicts can be very unhealthy emotionally. Codependence is usually characterized by one individual being extremely helpful to the point of sacrificing their own needs. One person can become dependent on the other’s need for them. Codependence in general is when one...

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